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\nA successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person, alas\u2026 if this is practiced in reality the divorce rate today would have been way down then what it is. The rate of divorce in India is about 17 per 1,000 marriages. Divorces granted by the family courts increased by 450 per cent between 2003 and 2015 in Kolkata, and doubled in Mumbai between 2010 and 2014.<\/p>\n

Bangalore along has witnessed a 20% year on year growth in divorce rate, almost 25 cases of divorce were filed daily back in 2008 clocking near about 3000 a year which today has grown to 10,000 cases filed in a year. While the heavens are handling the rush of marriages, back on earth, it’s the family courts that are working overtime to dissolve marriages that have hit the relationship roadblock.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s close to a decade I am practicing and in my experience handling divorce cases, I have discovered\u00a010 golden rules<\/u><\/b>\u00a0if incorporated in a marital life the relationship can be as sweet as honey\u2026, and in this blog, will try to pass on the message and assist the readers understand them, with a belief that reading this someone \u2026 somewhere may be able to save his\/her marriage and live happily.<\/p>\n

1.<\/b> The most important, and a one letter word is the first cause of damage, and this letter is \u201c\u00a0I<\/b>\u00a0\u201d , look at it, when its written, although alone, is written in capitals. No matter what language, stop using this word \u201c\u00a0I<\/b>\u00a0\u201c as much as possible. Many a times when couples come to me for discussing the issues the most common statements are\u2026
\na. I did so much for him \/ her
\nb. I did so much for my mother-in-law
\nc. I spent and fulfilled all her unnecessary demands
\nd. and because I did\u2026 I want \u2026 I need \u2026 I demand \u2026 I helped \u2026 I supported \u2026 etc\u2026 etc\u2026<\/p>\n

2.<\/b> Now just for a moment turn the tables and instead of using this single letter word \u201c\u00a0I<\/b>\u00a0\u201c start incorporating the usage of a double letter word \u201cWE<\/b>\u201d in your communication \u2026, its \u201cWe\u201d together did \u2026 \u201cWe\u201d together will \u2026 etc\u2026, per my experience in the last few years dealing with divorce cases, especially after the divorce is thru many a clients have come back to me and do tell\u2026 wish we had got one chance, and somehow\u2026<\/p>\n

3.<\/b> EGO<\/b>\u00a0is the three letter word which is the underlying factor, the root cause, that comes between the couples and this is exactly where We becomes I, find ways to get out of Ego. Learn to be cool and take things in their right ways, get away from thinking traps, chose to love and get away from complains. We are kids from heart\u2026 and we do mistakes\u2026 we talk harsh many a times\u2026 we may hurt many a people\u2026 learn to forgive.<\/p>\n

4.<\/b> LOVE<\/b>\u00a0\u2026 a four letter word that is the principle of forgiveness\u2026, Love kills ego that has turned the WE into I, love unconditionally, any time there is a conflict, go back to the days when you met first, cherish few memories from your past where you have loved each other unconditionally. Unfortunately today\u2019s generation, relationships can be\u00a0summarized\u00a0with one statement\u00a0\u201cLove at first sight-Divorce at first fight\u201d is this what we want to pass on to our Millennials, where are we heading towards, a stress filled life…!<\/p>\n

5.<\/b> What can be done to overcome this stress that is building up in us,\u00a0SMILE<\/b>, how often we smile daily, not sure, ask yourself reading this post and try counting the numbers of times you have smiled in a day, a stressful day that is filled with family stress, traffic stress, work stress, money stress, business stress, health related stress, accomplish related stress, etc\u2026 stress is everywhere and who becomes the scapegoat of this\u2026 your spouse, you come back home and pour out all your stress on to your spouse, husband shouts on wife and wife shouts on husband and then \u2026 rest is history. We have lost to SMILE\u2026, how often we have seen the face book messages and whatsapp forwards that \u201cAccording to doctors we use only four muscles to smile, but when we frown we use 64 muscles, i.e\u2026 16 times more\u201d<\/p>\n

6.<\/b> GOSSIP\u00a0<\/b>a six letter word is another root cause that often adds a lot of unnecessary waste in our minds leading to thinking traps and build unwanted stress, many a clients who often complain and I quote \u201cMa\u2019am, in my family, after my husband leaves for work, while I am doing household things, my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, often gossip about me, and then badmouth me \/ my family etc\u2026\u201d \u00a0look at the media that is adding fuel to the fire, \u201cSAAS BHI KABHI BAHU THI<\/i>\u201d ha ha ha\u2026 this is one of the most common things I have observed, many a marriages break especially when In-Laws are involved is because of Gossip, please, for haven sake, stop gossiping, stop spreading\u00a0rumors, stop badmouthing. I\u00a0remember reading a quote which said I am Daughter-In-Law of this family means\u00a0DIL\u00a0<\/b>of the family, Dil in English is Heart, \u2026 literally meaning Daughter-In-Law is the heart of the family, and what is happening today\u2026 heartburn and heartattcks\u2026<\/p>\n

7.<\/b> RESPECT\u00a0<\/b>a seven letter word the only way to stop gossiping about someone is to respect him\/her, with respect comes a lot of responsibility, with respect comes a lot of love, if you wish to be treated respectfully start giving respect to your spouse, to your in-laws, to your family members, to the newly wed bride who has come to your home leaving her family, to the newly married husband who has declared to the whole world now there is a companion in life he can live with for ever, to the newly wed wife who has redefined her life leaving back the chocolates and ice-creams for additional responsibilities. Respect plays a very vital role in the relationship, remember respect is for those who deserve it and not the one who demand it, many a times we don\u2019t understand the difference between deserving and demanding, especially the in-laws at home end up demanding respect\u00a0weather\u00a0they deserve it\u00a0or not and the most common verse the parents teach to their daughters is \u201cJukh kar chal<\/b><\/i>\u201d in English meaning bow down in front of your in-laws and husband and we in the 21st century talk about gender equality\u2026 ah\u2026 Respect is to be earned, by all in the relationship, it should be earned by the husband, by the wife, by the in-laws and to earn respect you need to let go your EGO, Stop Gossiping, start loving and caring unconditionally, above all smile often\u2026 remember wife or daughter-in-law is not a maid and a husband is not an ATM machine.<\/p>\n

8.<\/b> PATIANCE\u00a0<\/b>an eight letter word is the magical of all the words defined so far in the vocabulary of a relationship, it has a lot to do, go back and sneak into the lives of our parents and grandparents, the biggest learning one can learn from them can be summarized by a very famous quote an old lady told \u201cWe were born in the era, when something was broken, we would fix it, not throw it away\u201d. It takes a lot to be patient, todays millennial generation lacks patience, everything one needs is instant, gone are the days of standing in queue, gone are the days of waiting, look at the fast changing technology landscape that has reduced the cycle time of your needs and wants, and so \u2026 gone are the days of patience \u2026 its difficult today, but required the most.<\/p>\n

9.<\/b> GRATITUDE\u00a0<\/b>a nine letter word, the most miraculous one and has the capacity of working wonders in a marital relationship, what I have observed when discussed with many of my clients that after a period of time one starts taking another for granted, the quality of being thankful; readiness to show appreciation for and to return kindness which existed in the initial days of marriage between the spouse, the parents of both sides, the families, everything is lost in thin air, when was the last time we said our spouse \u201cI Love You\u201d or \u201cThank you\u201d, have we ever gone back to our spouse and thanked him\/her for supporting us in fulfilling our dreams\u2026goals\u2026desires\u2026wants\u2026needs\u2026 NO we have not\u2026 all we do is increase the bar \u2026 year on year as our corporate life demands us to set high goals, we come back and do the same with our spouse, marriage anniversary is not an appraisal. Start showing gratitude towards your people in the family, to your wife, to your husband, appreciate them for the good they have done, be thankful, you will see miracles unfolding your way.<\/p>\n

10.<\/b> CONNECTION\u00a0<\/b>… the last ten letter word, I will end this blog with is CONNECTION. You may carry the best smart phone in your pocket, what is it of use without being connected, it\u2019s a connected world we live in, and unfortunately we are not connected by heart with our family, with the wife, with the husband, with the parents, with the siblings, with one and all, we are living alone and we are disconnected. The most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen, perhaps the most important thing we give to each other is our attention. Throughout our lives we yearn to be loved and cared, this deep routed feeling is the crux for one to find a companion beyond mother and sister in a wife to be by the ups and downs lifelong, and for this to happen, the most important factor is to connect. Connect with mind\u2026heart\u2026body\u2026soul\u2026, Remember we don\u2019t accomplish in this world anything alone, our lives are connected by thousands of threads with thousands of people in every stream of our life, one needs to have the strongest connection with his\/her spouse and then nothing is impossible in life.<\/p>\n

I trust, reading this blog post you will for sure takeaway at least one of the above mentioned value which may assist you in some small way to lead a happy life\u2026, write to me at mail@lawyersonia.com<\/a> or comment below on this post and share your thoughts.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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